"This is going to hurt me more than its going to hurt you!"
The phrase heard around the world. No matter what language you
speak or the neighborhood you’re from (unless you suffer from affluenza), these
words preceded an inevitable form of punishment.
"How can it be?"
How can my pain hurt you, not as much, but more than it hurts me?
As a child, this paradox baffled me to my core. It made no sense that the source
of my perceived...