The phrase heard around the world. No matter what language you
speak or the neighborhood you’re from (unless you suffer from affluenza), these
words preceded an inevitable form of punishment.
"How can it be?"
How can my pain hurt you, not as much, but more than it hurts me?
As a child, this paradox baffled me to my core. It made no sense that the source
of my perceived affliction would hurt more than I. As a child, and sometimes
even now, my thinking was simple: Up was the opposite of down, there were
winners and losers, and there were pain givers and pain receivers. Now, you ask
me to believe in a mutual suffering? A mutual suffering that stems from love
and anger.
Love. It has caused wars, raised heroes, built nations and caused
committed men and women to gladly look death in the eyes and stare back! So has
anger. These two great passions can be seen as the seeds from which all great
efforts and conflicts grow.
A man will climb and cross mountains to get to the woman he
loves. If she were harmed, in anger, he would traverse those same peaks in
pursuit of her assailant. A mother would move heaven and earth for her
children, yet she will grow angry if they misbehave and discipline them.
In the same way, God would do anything for His people because He
loves us. Not unlike the loving mother’s reaction to poorly behaved children,
this does not absolve us from the discipline of His love.
I was always taught that whenever you see 'but' in a sentence,
the latter often contrast the aforementioned statement, BUT when you see ‘'yet,' a crucial detail is about to be added. In
Numbers 14:18, we read:
"The Lord is slow to
anger, abounding in love and forgiving sin and rebellion.
Yet
he does not leave the
guilty unpunished"
The Lord loves us, but this love doesn't negate His anger when we
exhibit undesirable behavior, yet the discipline is still from a place of love.
Love and anger are a two car garage that are attached to the same house. One
is a luxury sedan and the other is a four wheel drive SUV. They pull out of the
same driveway and onto the same street. The weather or circumstance determine
which the driver takes, but they are both intended to get us safely from point
A to point B.